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From Conflict to Caring

If you asked, most people would say we get into conflict around three subjects––Money, politics and religion. I’d add sex. So, if we avoid those topics––no conflict. Right?

But what about differences in values, in temperament, or taste? What about unmet needs or resentments over who left the toothpaste cap undone, or the towel lying on the floor? I could go on, but you get the point.

After working with couples and individuals for the past thirty years, I’ve concluded that conflict is conflict is conflict. We all have it, though many of us wish we didn’t. It’s in us, part of being human. Maybe we’re conflicted about a decision we have to make. For example, you need to move into a new home and you’ve been looking for months and found a couple of possibilities but now you can’t make up your mind. Which should you choose?

One is located in a nice neighbourhood with convenient shopping nearby, but it’s dark inside. The other is full of light but the neighbourhood is run down. You have only one day left to decide. Which one is best? You feel conflicted, but know you must choose. Did you know that most conflicts come from within? It could be a simple one, like deciding what to wear. You have a grey outfit ready to put on but when you wear grey you feel dowdy. You’ve worn your blue outfit twice this week and you like it but don’t want to look as if you have nothing else in your cupboard, which is closer to the truth than you’d like to admit. Which should you pick? You feel conflicted.

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